Where divorce is involved, a family law attorney may not necessarily be your best source of advice. Tax specialists may be able to help you better handle the financial end with a minimum of fuss, whereas a counselor or therapist may better help you keep the peace.

Family law associations are easy to find on the Internet, and may be the easiest way to find a sensitive attorney who can help you with your family law issue, be it divorce, child custody, or adoption. The may also be the most anonymous way to handle your search, especially if you don't want to confide in loved ones or friends.

When considering a prospective family law attorney for a specific matter, make sure you get an estimate of their fees in writing before you proceed. This is especially important if they're charging you by the hour. In fact, ask if they will sign a contract specifying those fees.